I had just come from another gathering of friends, and they gave similar responses to my question. Guess I'm on my own for ideas this year!
I get that it's tempting to 'opt out' of Valentine's Day.
- You're too busy.
- You didn't plan ahead.
- You haven't done anything for the past five years, and it would feel weird to change that.
- It's too expensive.
- You don't have any ideas.
- You don't want to break the agreement you have with your husband not to do anything.
And yet, somebody's celebrating. (I assume that's why I couldn't get a dinner reservation for Saturday night.) Somebody's buying all the cards with red envelopes at Target. (I assume that's why I couldn't find a good one.)
Don't we want our husbands and kids to know that somebody loves them, too?
I'm not guilting you, I promise! But the whole world knows it's Valentine's Day today. Isn't it making more of a statement to not do something?
Now, don't do anything crazy--like book flights to Paris. Do something simple. Use what you have in your house. Here's what I came up with for this morning (since nobody gave me any good ideas yesterday!):
Muffins from the grocery store. Not a big deal, but they loved it, and felt loved. Freshly brewed coffee (which is my husband's love language), and notes in lunches.
My favorite romantic moment with you this year was..... to be continued. (Look for my next email in an hour)What's your plan today? C'mon. No opting out of Valentine's Day.
"Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another."
I John 4:11
Love the notes for your family. And great idea with the emails. I think I'll have to do that too. I'll also mention that I saved money by not buying a card. That will make his day! ;)
ReplyDeleteWe just had a fun little tea party with heart paper plates and Little Debbie heart shaped cakes (and fruit so I didn't feel too guilty about all that processed junky sugar ;) ). The kids loved it and I got to sit and relax for a bit with some tea (and of course 2 of those cake things. :) )
Happy Valentine's Day!
Heidi, you make homeschooling sound like a delight! Have a blessed V-day with your loved ones.
ReplyDeleteGreat post Shannon.
ReplyDeleteJoe and I have hardly celebrated
for years, but this year I've
noticed that people who don't
have anyone to celebrate with get
really sad. And life is short, I
don't want to look back on all
the valentines days I had and
wasted!!! So last week I
said "Joe, can we go out to
dinner for Valentines day?" So
we did. I got him a cheesy red
box of chocolates and a homemade
valentine and he got me flowers.
I dressed up and painted my
nails red and we had a great time.